How do you prevent hurting a girl during sex?

I'm a guy obviously and seventeen. I'm not looking for a relationship right now and don't plan on having sex anytime soon. However I'm curious as to how I can prevent her from being in pain when the time comes. I would never want to cause her any pain. I couldn't enjoy sex knowing I was causing her pain and discomfort. Is there anyway to prevent the pain?How do you prevent hurting a girl during sex?Make sure you have a lot of foreplay. The vaginal opening expands when the girl is aroused (bigger=hurts less), so that's important. Do not just get on top and shove it in... that will hurt even if it isn't her first time. Secondly, if it's her first time, it may hurt a tiny bit no matter how gentle you are, so don't feel completely terrible if you do everything you could but it was still a bit uncomfortable. You may want to try using lubrication if it's a first time also. Though a lot of young people don't need lube, if its her first time she may be tense and lube would help slide it in smoothly. Hope this helps!How do you prevent hurting a girl during sex?
The most important thing is to be gentle and take your time. Guys tend to be immediately turned on. Girls take longer to get stimulated and longer to come down after orgasm. The most important thing you can do is make sure to engage in extended foreplay and check to make sure her vagina is sufficiently lubricated before insertion. The more lubricated she is before hand and the more gradually you engage in initial insertion, the less it will hurt, particularly if she is a virgin.How do you prevent hurting a girl during sex?Well, you see. It's quite simple. The way sex is (as you probably already know...) you stick your penis in her and squirt sperm. But, you first have to make sure she wants to have sex. and don't URGE her to or FORCE her or THREATEN to rape her. She needs to willing to have sex. You have to enter slow and easy. You'll probably be nervous and your legs can be shaking but just calm down and enter nice and slow. When she's more pleasurable into this; enter faster and faster and usually you should stop when she reaches the point of light screaming. But, there is always some pain in sex. But it's because it's so full of pleasure that it can be painful. So, don't rush it. Don't forget the condom if you don't to cause pregnancy.How do you prevent hurting a girl during sex?
Yea, LilyJ hit it on the head, she has to be aroused/wet/ready to go. You should be as gentle as you can be. one little add on..



If you are going slow and she is very wet and it is still causing her pain, you might try speeding it up a LOT. One girl whos virginity I took could only handle it if I really went at it hard because then it sort of tingled instead of being flat out painful, and that seemed to work for her. (she told me to go fast, i wouldnt recommend just driving it home unless she wants you to, because it could be exTREmely painful I imagine.)How do you prevent hurting a girl during sex?Why do you think that you are going to hurt the first girl you have sex with? Do you have a massive penis? If you are both aroused and ready for love-making then nature will take over. The first time I did it I was so nervous that my penis didn't stay hard for very long, even though I really wanted to have sex. But the next day we had sex I was not nervous at all. The ice had been broken, so to speak, and we were both feeling relaxed. That session lasted four hours with no pain involved at all, only pleasure. Be confident, explore your partner's body, she will like it and know that you are REALLY interested in every inch of her.
What alot of guys do is stick it in and as they are "pumping" it gets bigger inside her. well that hurts alot! make sure she is very very wet and your "stuff" has reached its maximum length before putting it inside. also, go slow. dont go fast unless she wants you to go faster. my boyfriend always does sex so rough and hard and it hurts like crazy. dont do that. good luck!



CourtneyHow do you prevent hurting a girl during sex?
I think you have a lot more to learn about sex before you ever have it. Who says your first is going to be a virgin? Most women its quick, brief and then enjoyable, if she's going to have any weird reactions she should know already because her gyno would have told her.
hi I'm a girl and i have had sex before my first time was terrible he had no idea what he was doing use a lube KY his %26amp; hers is the best and being wet feels great for u %26amp; her but please wait til u r maryed it wil be betterHow do you prevent hurting a girl during sex?
lilyj has the best answer in my opinion. It very well may hurt her if it is her first time and you can't help that. Make sure she is wet (lube or moisture from arousal) and definitely go slow!!
Theres's Really No Way To Prevent Pain......You Just Need To Go Slow And Be Gentle With Her And Things Should Be Fine!!!
go slow

make sure she is very wet

or use lube

remember condoms!!
lots of foreplay and lube and go slow at first.
go really slow