Thursday, February 16, 2012

Sex......?

I really want my friend, I've been attracted to him for two years now- as wrong as this may sound, I would do anything to sleep with him and I don't think he'd object to it, if the opportunity came, we have done everything BUT sex before when drunk (cuddling, groping in bed etc).



I posted this question before, kinda gives you an idea of the situations we come across as a pair:

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmrCMixBx4abqaeC02eTnXggBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20080602102208AAwKC7l

In summer we are going on a camping /beach trip with 5 other people, where we plan to get smashed for a week ... but sharing one huge tent, so that ruins that. What can I do to try and initiate sex with him, bearing in mind we are close. I dont want to "just ask him".I know it may alter our friendship if it ever happens and that i'm being "easy".

But what actual actions or moves can I make when we are together to initiate something and heat things up?

Loves having his hair played with, if any help?Sex......?There are quite a few ways you could get round this:



1. Put it straight, ask him!

2. Do something he loves - cook him his favourite dish, play his favourite music...

3. Come close to him and start being sexy. Play with his hair, take his hand and stroke your body with it, dance in front of him...attract him...You could even strip in front of him and start stroking your nipples and doing all the sexy moves...

4. Do it in bed when he is relaxed - just go for it.



It is often hard to choose which way to do it - but every couple

finds their way of doing it. Whatever the way, I wish you the best of luck and...enjoy the beautiful feeling when you are doing it...Sex......?
I had a summer of "friends with benefits" and it started with HER saying "I need sex" so I obliged! Why be subtle?



That was a wonderful summer and we both enjoyed it. We were still friends when we started dating other people and decided that the "benefits" should stop. She even came to our wedding (don't tell my wife about the benefits) and brought her boyfriend as a date!Sex......?Send this txt to him:



Hey i no its a out of a blue question but fancey having sex sometime.



(SCROLL DOWN THE PAGE)





Send this to as many people as you can and see what they say to you, Find out whos dum enough to not scroll down.

Let the games begin.



I got that txt the over day. I fink you will be suprised what he txts back =P



Goood luck!Sex......?
just start kissing him/come onto him he'll take it from there lol :P good luckSex......?Ask him over and show him your body and start to touch yourself , telling him .that you wish it was him doing this to you.
next time you know your parents arent in. ask him if he wud like to come over and make sure you have condoms around! good luck xSex......?
Get him on his own (somewhere private) get chatting and go in for a kiss and go on from there.
go out in the water at night reach in his trunks he'll get the ideaSex......?
well what you can do is when your sitting on the beach with him somewhere off away from everyone (ask him to walk with you or something) take a seat next to the water, and try to see where things go from there. if things dont naturally happen try small things kiss, cuddle, grope and try to get things started. and if that dose not lead to it make it happen yourself you wont seem easy your sitting on a beach alone, nice and romantic. things start to happen get my point lol. well good luck
From a guys perspective, I know this sounds terrible, but be as slaggy as you can! Guys love a girl who is up for it as horrible as that sounds and ur friend sounds like one of those guys if he was to be up for it. Dress to kill, and make sure that you are flirting plenty. If ur nervous and wanna speed it up, bring alcohol into the situation! Always good for confidence and encouragement! I say just go for it, have a great time before hand, back to his/urs, and just take it from there with a bit of light kissing and cuddling...start with a film! always good. Make sure its a saucy film too :P and yeah, deffo play with his hair!!



xx
Well, if it hasn't led all the way to sex considering you've done everything else but that - try removing your knickers..
just tell him you feel horny



truthful answer
ya just start coming on to him and/or kissing him
jst tell him u wanna hav sex with him. i told my ex that when we were 2gether and he wanted it also!
hunny, all guys love havin there hari played with
the next time you playing around with each other (touching each others privates)

say to him

'if you carry on doing that im goona end up doing you '



he wont stop and that will give you the oppertunity



its still got to feel right for both of you though



if it feels wierd dont go thru with it



hope that sorted it for ya



and remember



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Practice safe sex!! :P

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