However everyone knows the saying "sex always changes relationships". Well, I think this is kind of holding us back a bit because we're scared we might lose our frienship which is so special and important to us.
Have any of you ever had sex and then had your relationship with that person change? In a good or bad way?
Thanks guys your answers will really help me out.Sex????????Don't do it!
Sex really does change a relationship. And not always for the better.
If you guys have waited this long, why not wait until you say your "I dos"?Sex????????
Well Me and my gf were best friends for a year and we were worried about this to but it brought us alot closer and made our relationship more open weve been together 2 yrs and i %26lt;3 her more than ever.But Im sure your relationship wont change it will make u more open with eachother
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Sex????????don't have sex until after your married. my cousin had sex and shes not married and now their relationship is terrible. they act as if they want to kill each other.Report Abuse
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Sex????????Seriously, that answer got 5 points? That's a horrible answer!Report Abuse
DONT DO IT!!!
IT WILL MESS UP UR RELATIONSHIP!!
STAY IN SKOOL!
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Sex????????Just have sex! SEX IS GREAT!!!!
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If your ready, try it! you might get children!Sex????????
yes, i was worried about that to but man was the relationship better after sex we were more emotional withy each other!!! have fun and use a rubber!!!
Sex in todays society isnt as big of a "deal" as it was say ten years ago. Sex may change relationships but from my experiences its for the better. But the only way i recommend you and your gf having sex is if the time feels right for both of you. Yes discussion of whether your ready or not is a good start, but you both know you are now and are past that point. All there is to do now is wait and see how things progress over time. Just let things happen naturally.
Yes sex changes relationships. However, if you have been with this person for two years getting together wouldn't be having sex, it would be making love. (Only do this if you are both over 18 years old).
Just remember it's going to be painful for her the first time so take your time. Also remember it's not going to be like a porn movie.
Also if you are both still in school, it's not going to kill you to wait until y'all finish school. The main thing is this: Sex is for making babies. If you are not ready to have children either don't have sex or use protection. (protection don't always work).
In my personal opinion if you love each other for the right reasons it may change in a good way. If you don't know what you want then it can confuse things if you have doubts don't do it. I am not sure how old you are but if you love each other and your both virgins don't have sex until your ready for a real commitment. Sex may be disapointing at first for you both because neither one of youare experience but depending on your relationship it could be great If you are not ready wait make sure you bothe are ready for wht coes with sex use protection birth control is not enough there is good andbad with sex think about if you are ready to take care of a kids or not becasue she could get pregnant the first time no matter what people have told you. Be careful talk about it with your woman.You both need to ask yourselves if you are ready for a REAl commitment? Do you love each other are you ready to have your relationship good or bad? are you scared of a commitment? what would you do if your girlfriend gets pregnant? Are you ready to be a father can you afford to take care of a baby? Do you really love each other? Can you be patient for sex to be better?Have you been holding a out to yearsbecasue you love each other or becasue you are horny and you are curious about sex? if you care about each other there shouldn't be a rush. Take your time read some books together kiss and cuddle and if you both decide you are ready then the time will come naturally take your time. Make it worth it . In the meantime maybe read some books on tauntra and karma sutra and explore erotic touching sometimes its better thsn the real thing oh yeah and ther is always mutual masturbation. Don't be in a rush to have it! make sure you BOTH are on the same page. I wish you both luck.
If you really think you are ready to have sex then go ahead just dont take advantage of her just because you have sex with her. You should treat her with respect,and always have a good relationship with her.I think that sex changes your relationship.but it's a good thing. It depends on what you do after you and your gf have sex.
Sex makes you feel more closer to the person you did it with... cz' with the person you love and wanna spend with for the rest of your life, it is not just sex. It is an act of "lovemaking". %26amp; it is special. Very.
Yea... after making love once, the relationship does change... but in a different subtle manner.. cz' the feeling that you have bcome intimate and bonded by body also means a lot... especially to a girl... and the relationship becomes more strong.. and the guy if he is old and mature enough, feels extra love and protection towards the girl.
My relationship too changed. But in not so bad a way.. We did have arguments a lil more frequently but that was because I felt I needed more time from him...
Its been almost 3 years since we first made love... we love each other a lot even now and are going to get married next year..
Our relationship has gotten more deeper and comfortable. And I know he would take really good care of me and that I can trust him with my life.
The feeling is different. YES. But somehow special.
yes i have and yes it did...ummm one went bad a another went good...so if i was you i think you two should sleep together...that way you two being such good friends you can try it together and experiment together that is my suggestion...hope that helps
its can only get better, use a condom take your time,only do what you both like to do, (read a book even)and don't be surprised if its not like in the movies sex takes practice to get right, its time to start practising!
i would do it..
it probably make your relationship better
thats what happened to me
How old are you kids? I think that really matters, because it just aint right for 12yr olds, but since you've been going out for 2 years I'll assume not.
I disagree that sex changes relationships. When I had sex with my boyfriend of 10 months (and we were both virgins too) I thought something would change but it didnt.
It would only change a relationship I think, if she was using you to only get to the sex. And after 2 years I doubt it! If you both want to and it feels right, then go for it, if not, simple, dont!
me and my boyfriend hav been together for a year. and we really wanted to have sex and we had been talking about it for a long time. and we finally did it. andit rbought us closer together. everytime i see him i get a tingling feeling inside and its refreshing becuase it almost renewd our relatinship
if your both ready go for it ,at least you will both lose your viginity to someone you love and will always remember. good luck
DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Think of all the people you know who's lives have been messed up by giving in. With out the commitment of marriage, YOU are just treating her like an unpaid whore. Many relationships have broken up after sex has been had. You WILL wonder about what she has done with other guys if she gives in to you. She WILL lose her respect for you because YOU didn't make her wait for marriage.
But that's not all. What if you two make a baby? What do you do next? Get married? Keep it? Kill it? Give it up for adoption? No birth control is 100% eaffective. Women have become pregnant even using the pill. Condoms do fail quite a bit.
Don't mess up your life!!!!!!! If she is the one for you, if she is worth it, if she is the one you want to have children with, YOU BOTH can wait.
I promise you, it WILL be worth the wait.
if you both feel old enough and are mature to handle what does come out of a sexual relationship, then yes i was 17 when i lost mine and I'm still with that person and have had his baby, yes we have had our up's and down's and also cheated on each other as we had not experienced sex with anybody else so we were both curious,we split after3 months we got back together and now we are getting married next year!!! i personaly would not change what has happened with my partner, as i would not have my beautifull son.
good luck
If you are both virgins do you think it would be meaningful to wait until you marry each other?
Sex does change a relationship. You can't get away from that fact. If either of you is questioning it at all, that is probably a sign that you are not ready. It sounds like you are pretty young - keep in mind that you have plenty of time ahead of you for sex! There's no need to rush it. You want your first time to be 100% a good memory for both of you, so if either of you are questioning like this I think you should wait until you're both 100% sure. In the meantime, there are plenty of other ways to express your affection physically. Remember, there's miles and miles to go between holding hands and making love. There are a lot of ways to express your affection that are not intercourse.
Good luck to both of you!
Depends on how old you are, it doesnt seem that your more than about 17 or 18 so it will definitely take a toll on the relationship just because of the maturity level of both of you guys.
And yes it has changed relationships for me sometimes, for instance in high school if i ever had sex with a girl i was going out with usually it would end up bad because then she would get overly attached and get lust confused with other feelings.
i think it will only bond you more.
sure sex can screw your relationship, but it can also strengthen it. mide as well dive in head first and give her all you got. if you dont suck terribly bad maybe shell become a nymph and you'll get your rocks rocked on a nightly basis.
Sex does change a relashionship. If your really sure and very serious about then go for it. Use protection and get tested. NEVER NOT USE PROTECTION!! One little thing could change your life forever!
Go for it, if you both feel ready. Sex does change relationships, but in way that will connect you on a more personal and intimate level. Only you both know when its time, enjoy it.
it kinda helps your relationship. i mean it defitlel doesn't change in a bad way, it feels good
Sex is Fun, clears our mind from some sought of tension over not having sex, U can have it and if your friend accept it then you both will have a real fun....I think you have wasted your time......
If the relationship does change it will probably be for the better because once you have sex for the first time with someone you will always have that bond with them. Sex is not a bad thing. Just make sure that you are protected. If you guys feel that you love each other enough nothing will change your feelings for each other. Hope this helps%26lt;3
ok i was in the same boat you are, the key is to let your relationship grow from this experience, and not let it become just about the sex, see my point? if it gets to that point, slow down or all she will remember is the sex and not you
hope this helps
I personally think that it does change a relationship, but for the better. It draws you closer together, plus adds another layer to your relationship!
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well, if u guys are both ready 4 it, sure, y not? and if ur SEXY, trust me, ur girlfriend will even more attached than she is now! so u wouldnt have 2 wry about u guys getting less close. sssssss! lol, have...fun! LOL
I think u should.
Good Luck!!
Sex and Relationship are two different things, SEX makes relationship stronger, but you need to love each other and understand each other to enjoy sex. Both should equally enjoy it.
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