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what makes a person good at it?? and how can u be bad at it... difficult to explainSex?! ???????????????????Good:

stimulate the person enough

drive them horny

hit the right spots

right attitude

lubrication

goes smoothly



Bad:

not enough stimulation

Uncomfortable/forced

not enough lubrication

too rough

wrong attitude

bumpy and confused



As a guy I refer to sex books and online material to refer to. Kama Sutra is not the only source (in fact most stuff in there has been done over and over like a cliche in porn movies). Try Lou Paget for something mutual. I won't expose the more explicit stuff in case I am talking to someone who's curious more than experimental i.e. under 18



hope this helpsSex?! ???????????????????
'Good at it' ~ is seen as something by someone who appreciates it, or not, and then if that were the case, you'd get the opposite opinion / reaction.



'Good at it' is, I guess, someone who enjoys - adores - loves what it means and entails for them to do and or be involved in.



'Sex' isn't just 'coitus', Sex is a whole spectrum of ~ things and activities and places ~ and personal meanings.



Sex, having sex, can for some, be more exciting in an hotel room rather than at home on a bed: or it could be in an office, car, train, in a field ~ while fully dressed ~ fully naked ~ being tied up or constrained.



Sex can involve anything you can see around you which someone somewhere has involved in some form of sexual activity at some time.



Being 'bad' at sex, I guess, would be to be not connected with one sexual side, and worse still, to be indifferent to it ~ whilst saying yes to joining in ~ and then to just lay there unresponsive ~ totally devoid of any enthusiasm.



I could write more, but, that covers a large and the easy parts of it.



Sash.Sex?! ???????????????????your good at it when you know what your doing, and confident with your performance. communication can also be beneficial so you can discover what your partner likes.



you can be bad at it if you don't know what your doing, have know confidence in your performance, and no communication!



p.s if in doubt watch porn to get some tips, or sex education video - your never too old for some of that!



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If you're a guy: pleasuring ur wife. That means kissing/touching and WAITING for her to get ready. Then, when you actually begin intercourse, hold on for as long as you can. (Don't rush her, I know its hard for you to stop an orgasm - but if you do, it will be worth it in the end!) She'll let you know when she is ready (and you will enjoy it more too bcoz u waited longer to release). If you can do that, then she will have an orgasm (or multiple ones) and think you are awesome in bed.

If you're a girl: pleasure ur husband too. You don't need to wear something sexy (unless he is into it) but you need to touch him down there (that is his most sensitive part). And don't start intercourse until you are ready!!! If you work to satisfy him in bed, he will do the same for you.

Most importantly, work with positions that satisfy you both the most bcoz then u both will have an intense orgasm.

Ppl who are bad at sex are those who don't consider their partner's needs. You should be sensitive to what your partner wants and put their feelings above ur own (especially if you are a guy coz its easier for you to have an orgasm). And never, ever leave ur partner after having sex. Lay in each others arms and talk to each other. Enjoy each others company and relax with each other.

All of the above = an awesome sex life.Sex?! ???????????????????I think being good at sex is knowing what each other want and willing to achieve the ultimate goal, being bad at it i think when you don't take into consideration the other person, i wouldn't necessarily say clumsiness etc is a bad thing because that's sex! things happen a elbow here or there its best to have a giggle and carry on where you started.
By practicing and you can be bad at it if its your first time and your doing it with an experienced person. Tip: When you first do it, do it with a virgin or even get practice with virgins so they cant even say if you were bad or not cause they've never done it.Sex?! ???????????????????
ok its hard to explian if your doing oral then you need to do it the way she wants you to ,but if your having regular sex then I don't think you can be bad at it!! GOOD LUCK FINDING OUT!!
if you have good genetics you're automatically good at everything in life including sex



if your like me, who got the worst genetics from my stupid ******* father, then you'll be a failure at the simplest thingsSex?! ???????????????????
Experience makes you better. Whether it's with the same person every time (could become repetitive) Or with someone else that teaches you different.



Look up Karma Sutra online and learn some hot tips or something.
Her willingness to experiment and openness to try different things and if she is closed minded then that would make her bad at sex.
What makes a person good at it is if they know what they're doing and satisfy their partner



What makes a person bad at it is if they are cause pain or damage to the body during intercourse
There is no such thing as bad or good ..what might be good for one person is not for another..its all about Chemistry when your with the right person you share idea's and experiences and better them with each other
experience and effort....nuff said



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Experience. The more you do it the better you get. Although that doesnt mean with different people. Try sticking with the same person haha
If you wanted to email me, I'd gladly explain the intricities, but I think I'd get banned if I explained it here.
good = orgasm



bad = chlamydia
confidence, experience, %26amp; being comfortable with the person



have fun

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woww. okay just do it who cares if your good. find like some prositute to test it out on and just have fun. no one cares if your goooddd.
Practice Practice Practice
I think it's about making a connection with somebody and being able to pick up quickly on what they like and dislike.
true its mostly bout genetics and it takes days of experience u might of heard first times always worst but dats not always true its mostly all in ur HEAD
EXPERIENCE....
Moving is a start, a girl i know doesn't move, she just lays there
you can do it!!!!!
Obesity?
Experiance.
years of experience makes a person good at it
Just dont forget to brush ur tooth be4 havin sex lol
do whatever he wants you to then he will think you're good.
When you get a text saying "do u want bangin"
Just relax and go with the flow.