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me and my boyfriend have been with each other for almost a year. my boyfriend wants it all the time. but i dont, not because i dont want him, its just that sometimes i just want to relax with him. sex isnt everything to me. but to him it is, he constantly says that i dont want him. but he doesnt get how i feel. is it wrong of me to feel that way. to not want it all the time?Sex!!!!!!!!?If he was any good at sex, you would want it as much or more than he does. Tell him to he doesn't make you want it.Sex!!!!!!!!?
That's pretty common. It goes both ways. Sometimes the lady wants it more instead of the guy (believe or not). If you love each other you'll work it out, but don't just ignore it or you'll end not being happy.Sex!!!!!!!!?no it's not you. Girls normally dont' want it all the time. Or at least not nearly as much as men. Then again there are some girls who want it all the time or maybe more then men. Everyone's different. You're not weird, you're just you.Sex!!!!!!!!?
ditch the zero, get with the hero.Sex!!!!!!!!?It's ok to not want sex all the time. But is it possible he keeps asking because you don't give it to him?
tell him how you feelSex!!!!!!!!?
He's an immature prick. Leave him. If all he wants is sex, then there is nothing else in it for you but pregnancy, STDs, pain, and a terrible cycle that will hurt to stop.
its the point of every relationship past 18yrs oldSex!!!!!!!!?
Some men just love sex and want it all the time. Maybe you should compromise once in awhile and surprise him.
no that's perfectly normal. most men want sex more than most women, that's a fact. He just wants to satisfy his urges. Women are more affectionate beings. Just tell him that sometimes you just want to relax and cuddle
i think its normal for you to think like that and there are books called diving in, in the deep end and sink or swim you should read them in order the author is kate cann and they will give u advice i am sure it will
l say you leave him!!!! Aparently he doesn't get the fact that you are not ready yet, and it would only make things worse if you do it just to please him. Like you said, sex is not everything, find a nice guy who will understand you and if he really loves you, he'll wait. But ditch your bf, he doesn't deserve someone like you. l don't have anything against him, but if a man pressures you into having sex. then he is not the right guy for you.
Hold it! This is not about him, it is about you and him. If you do not want to have sex with him then DON'T! Tell him so. Tell him that if he really loved you he would wait for you to be ready. If he's not willing to wait then, whether you love him or not, he's not worth it. You deserve better.
Yeah. Most guys are into their own needs or egos so much that the could care less about yours.



There's a good chance he doesn't think that you don't want him but is just saying it because it has worked before.



Just stand your ground. Tell him that I'm not in the mood and it will be so much better when you are. And if he has a problem he can just find another girl to f*ck because you are so much more than a f*ck buddy. Your his girlfriend and he has to treat you that way.
Ladies says yes means yes and men will be always ready.But talk to him frankly and

you also take sex with positive attitude.Let him to bring you in orgasm.then he himself

don't want every time. You may more interest than him. and it become a challenging for him.Then he will happy and take care of you.
If he's not giving you enough attention during sex, it can just be tedious to have sex too often. Tell him how you feel, if you need more attention or just more cuddling. If he is faced with the option of having no sex with you or giving you better sex, he might just step up his game a bit...who knows! BUT the important thing is to talk to HIM about it.
It's not wrong. You should not change for him. Just as he should not expect you to change. Sex can be a wonderful thing for a couple in love. but if it becomes just sex. then it's not fun or wonderful. Just tell him how you fell. If he loves you he will understand. By the way do you self satisfy? If your doing that and he knows it, and your not being with him. That's a problem. Hope it works out for you.
This is the usual way it goes....or so I thought until I married a guy less into sex than ME!

It's frustrating to want someone and have them want to relax...

I guess it takes all kinds.